What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:52
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Why are Boomers so vehemently opposed to student loan forgiveness?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Why do women consider 80% of men as unattractive?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What's a joke you haven't used yet, but are dying to share?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
What do flat Earthers think causes the "magical downward force"?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Any that are a turn off?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
29- How superstitious are you?
What is your favorite position? Why?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Nothing too Serious
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
How old are you? Male or Female?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
39~ What are your love languages?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Please share Did you stop?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Would you read them together?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Family Relation Age Play
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
*** Questions About Me ***
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
52~ What are your hobbies?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
*** Random Questions ***
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
The Ice Breaker Questions